“Hi MOM’s – I need your help, my 2 year old (nearly 3) is usually a lovely little boy, caring, cries when anyone else cries but lately he has been targeting my niece who’s 8. He is constantly telling her she can’t have something or can’t join in, and when that doesn’t work he pinches or bites her. I’m at my wits end. I’ve tried ignoring him, and paying her attention. I tried telling him that if he can’t share no one can have anything but that doesn’t work. He seems to feel that if he says sorry after he’s done it all will be ok. I really don’t want my son to grow up to be a bully!” Do you have any advice for a 3 year old being mean?