My daughters thoughts involve a sex movie that she was shown at a “friends” house. I thought I had helped her through it but recently these same girls (whom she is not friends with) were talking about their parents having sex. My daughter now has terrible thoughts that people will try and do it to her and she told me that a little voice keeps telling her over and over that she is horrible for thinking about it. She tells me every thought and how she is feeling but it is breaking my heart to see her like this. I have always been open with her but have sheltered her to this type of media. I have tried to normalise the situation but it hasn’t helped at all. She has told me that the voice tells her that she isn’t good enough and that she wants to not be here! She has stressed to me that she does and but the voice just takes over…do I seek outside help or so I just work through it with her?
Posted anonymously, 24th April 2020