I have twin sons who are 26, they are living at home and both have suffered from depression and ADHD, so they get a pension, however they will do nothing. They are bright boys, but still childlike in that I still buy their clothes, do all their washing, they will not clean their rooms, their bathrooms or toilet. I am unwell and my husband is now 70 and also unwell. They won’t move out despite having considerable savings as they have never had to spend money whilst living here- one purchased a brand new car, the other does not have a license as he considers he does not need one as his brother has one. They do play golf a few times a week and are members at a club but do not attend any functions. We have tried tafe, disability employment agencies, all with no success. This is causing problems between my husband and me at a time when we should be enjoying life. Having them living with us is no great drama if only they would do something to contribute. Please, any advice would be appreciated.
Posted by mom109463, 28th January 2015