My 4 year old wants to go to big school now. Her preschool says she isn’t really ready yet, I want to keep her back another year as well. How can I help her keep making the easy transition from home to preschool. At preschool she is hardly talking, very quiet when she does. Doesn’t ask people or tell people no if she doesn’t like what they are doing. She is really clever with letters at home, knows her name and can write it and yet at preschool she isn’t saying letters, acting like she can’t write her name or even spell it out. She writes it on any bit of paper she can find. Even when I’m asleep she can write her name on her own. I’m not sure what to say or do to explain that she needs to do what she does at home at preschool or she can’t go to big school for another year or 2. Thanks in advance.