I have been nagging my daughter for a year now to clean her bedroom, she starts, dawdles and then stops, you literally have to wade through stuff to get to her bed (her bedroom is smallish). I have already tried locking her in there on a Saturday and telling her she does not come out until it is clean, this resulted in a tantrum and then she just laid on her bed and went to sleep, I have stopped her from going to dance (she does ballet, jazz, tap and acro) which she had a tantrum over but it still did not result in her actually even trying to clean the room, I have taken away things such as TV time (she was quite happy to go 6 months without TV). I am at my wits end, my husband does not really help as he is messy and I am constantly nagging him to clean his side of our bedroom. What can I do?
Posted by lepumpkinhead, 26th February 2016