Definitely talk with him about it, but never in the car whilst driving somewhere. That never works. The best way I have found is just u and your husband go to lunch, say at Maccas even, and after he has nearly finished eating and u are both having a coffee, just say u would like to talk to him about something that is worrying you. It works best if he is sitting opposite u. Being in a public place, means he is not going to walk out or raise his voice etc. Try not to use blaming language like “u never…” Just ask is there a problem regarding your side of the family and say how u miss him not going with u etc. Good luck. I hope it works out for u.
Published 19th October 2019