I have been married to my husband for 8 years, together for 12. We have three children together and I am just so unhappy. My husband is wonderful, there is no underlying issue. No verbal/physical abuse. My husband is a good husband and a great father. He just doesn’t make me happy anymore. And I can’t remember the last time I actually felt happy with him.
I just really feel like this is it for my life. The last time we were intimate was when we conceived my third child and she is now one and half! And the problem is on my end. Every time my husband goes to initiate it I make excuses to the point he just doesn’t even try anymore. I feel horrible saying this, but I just don’t find him attractive. I just feel like I settled and now we have kids together I am stuck here.
Does anyone else feel like this? Is this the norm and people just don’t talk about it because they hide behind their perceived perfect social media lives? If what I am experiencing is totally wrong, what can I do? I just cry myself to sleep every night because I just feel so lonely and isolated and don’t know what to do.
Posted anonymously, 7th October 2014