My beautiful Daughter is almost 29, and had a “Wedding” with her partner Michelle in late August. This is very private and it is hard to talk about, but my daughter was raped by a family member when she was 6, and again when she was 16 years of age by another school student. The first case he went to jail and the 2nd, he got away with it due to mistakes by the police in their investigation and for the court case. (They have been punished by Internal Affairs).
About 2 years ago she announced she was Gay, but we had known for awhile, so as long as she was happy, it never made a difference to how we felt about her.
Today, I was talking to my daughter and she said she wanted to have a baby. The problem is, with the last rape, he did quite a bit of damage to her internally. I don’t think she could give birth normally. I don’t want her to think It isn’t a good idea, but I am scared for her. I told her she should ask for a cescarian. (excuse the spelling).
Her partner Michelle may or may not want to carry a baby, so I am scared for my daughter. I want to know your opinion as to how I can openly talk with my daughter without her thinking I am against it because she is gay.
We have had problems together for quite awhile, and she has a habit of taking things I say the wrong way. I don’t want her to think I am against it, when I definitely am not, I am for it. Just terrified for her.
Has anyone been in the same situation, whether gay or not? And do you know of any other options for them to obtain an egg? I want to be helpful to the daughter, my beautiful girl who has been through so much.
xxx Thank you
Posted by dee lindsay, 30th September 2015