My brother and I have always been close, until he got married. His wife is an extremely confrontational and verbally aggressive person. She has started numerous fights with people on our family. She has started several fights with me that have resulted in her and my brother not talking to me for weeks on end. Every time I am the bigger person apologising first, even though I’m not in the wrong, because I would rather save the relationships than do further damage. I prefer to let things go.
However recently she started something again and she is completely in the wrong. I really don’t think I can forgive her again. I don’t know what to do as I don’t want to lose my brother. Does anyone have any advice?
Posted anonymously, 19th May 2014