My partner and I have been going out 2 years now, we have a 11 month old together and I have a 5 year old from a previous relationship.
My partner doesn’t see how he treats me. He complains about everything I seem to do. My sister is going through a hard time so she had to move in here, but my partner would rather her live on the street. So he complains about everything she does, even though she does help me out with the kids when I need it.
If I speak up about him complaining all the time he tells me I’m a horrible person for not taking his side and tells me to act like an adult about stuff. I’m not happy anymore. I don’t feel happy. I love him but what can I do? Can he get counselling to change his ways? Or should we get relationship counselling?
My daughter has picked on the way he is and said to me he is always grumpy and yells at her. He doesn’t yell but does tell her to go away a lot.
Posted anonymously, 27th May 2014