My husband and I want another child. He wants one now. I want to wait. Our daughter turns 2 July 4th, and is not potty trained. (Which family has been giving me crap about, saying I need to train her, but I just don’t feel like she’s showing signs of being ready yet) and that’s one reason I want to wait. I don’t really want two in diapers at once. But I really can understand why he wants to have one now. He’s 35. He feels that if we wait much longer, he will be too old by the time the child is in school and doing fun things. He feels he’ll be too old to get out have fun with them. Or teach then certain things. And I do kind of agree. I want to still be relatively young as they grow up too, so I can have energy to keep up with them. I’m only 25 now though, so waiting a year or 2 isn’t as big of a deal for me as it is for him, with him already being 35. I want another one, I just don’t know If I want one yet or not. Any thoughts?
Posted anonymously, 27th May 2015