I feel it’s your responsibility to leave everything your mother needs to HELP you look after your child. If you are not happy with her car seat, move your one to her car so she can go out! Your mother is doing you a favour in looking after your child for you, you can’t expect her to halt all plans of her own. If you are unhappy, make sure next time you ask her if she is planning on being at home all day before you send your child over.
Published 27th January 2020