We don’t know if we should send a Christmas card to my hubby’s brother after he insulted me after I sent him a photo of our daughter when she made her communion and confirmation. My husband said he felt he should apologise to me as it was not called for. He sent me a letter saying he wouldn’t apologise as that would mean he was giving into me and after that he didn’t send our girls gifts for their b’days or even a card! I still feel I deserve an apology as I did nothing wrong. I thought I was doing something nice as he couldn’t make it to our daughters special day. I don’t feel I deserved to be told I’m a control freak, I hurt my husband and make him sad and I force my hubby to lie to his parents, all of which are not true plus a lot of other untrue things! What should I do?
Posted anonymously, 17th December 2013