I have a child with disabilities attending school. I have not announced this fact to other parents or students. He is in year two with an aid / assistant and will not act age appropriate when feeling angry sad frustrated etc… I have become harder on him with discipline but to no avail thus far. I was afraid of him being treated different but he already is being treated different without them knowing about his disability. No birthday party invites, play dates or even me over for a coffee anymore. As his peers matured he has not, although he looks fine and is so tall you might expect better of him thinking he is older. Should I reveal or allow this continue as it seems we have that label now.