My granddaughter throws tantrums when somebody other than her mum does things for her.
Today, for example, I undid her buckle in her car seat & she screamed & cried. I felt so bad. I have witnessed her do this to her poppy, but never to me. I know she does to her dad as well.
What should we do here? I’m at a loss to understand this. Should we just give in to her for the sake of peace? It seems to me we skipped straight over the terrible 2’s into the terrible 3’s. She goes to daycare 4 days a week with her other nanny. I have her one day a week. When she’s with me, she just wants me, not poppy at all. It upsets him, and I know angers her dad.
Please, any helpful advice?
Posted by roycee, 10th December 2013