“Hi all, just wondering if anyone had any ideas of how to work with a 3.5 yo girl. She’s pretty independent and strong willed. Basically ask her to do something or tell her not to do something and you just get ignored. Threats, smacks, timeout, picking battles, losing toys and bribery have all been tried. I would just love a lil one that would just behave. Anyone else out there that has gone through the same thing? Any ideas cos I’m at a loss what to do.” Do you have any tips to help with a strong willed 3 year old?