“Hi! Just wanting your thoughts (please!!)- I am due next month with baby #3 & I’m wondering if I should swaddle or not. My 1st child we swaddled just in wraps for a few months but then put her into a sleeping bag, my 2nd had complications after his birth so spent the first week laying with nothing but a nappy in his NICU crib & seemed quiet happy but when we got back on the ward the nurse told me I HAD to swaddle him & she kept coming & wrapping him, we bought him a love to swaddle wrap & it was brilliant but it took us til he was 9 months old to finally wean him off wearing one! So baby #3 the question is to swaddle or not to swaddle?! (It is very cold in winter where we live-gets into the minus overnight so swaddling does help keep bub warm at least) I’ve been reading what I can find on the pros & cons but they seem to contradict each other!!” What is better? Swaddling or not swaddling?