“Can someone please help me? I have an almost four year old and he has usually been easy to put to bed but, in the last two weeks it has been a nightmare.. He has been telling me that I have to sleep with him and to do what he says and that he is the boss! I don’t know how to make him realize he is a child and I am an adult. I have layed with him a couple of times until he falls asleep, and I have now decided that I have to be strong and tell him that I will not be sleeping with him! He gets hysterical and comes out screaming, it breaks my heart hearing him cry. He keeps telling me to do what he says, how do I deal with this?? I am feeling so upset, I don’t like my baby going to sleep crying” Do you have any tips for a 4 year old not going to bed by himself?