My 5 year didn’t meet her father until she was one, he had her every second weekend until she was 2 1/2 years old. He them broke up with his partner and didn’t feel up to looking after her on his own, then 6 moths with no contact wanted to see her again, which again only lasted a few months. Now it’s been nearly 2 years with no contact and he wants to see her. His last message to me was he didn’t want anything to do with her as he felt a a baby sitter for me and nothing else. It’s been proven by DNA he is her father. In the 2 years I have gotten engaged, and had another baby. My daughter also calls my partner daddy. Her father has also gotten married and expecting a baby. I am stuck as to wat to do, he has had plenty of chances before. My daughter is settled and I think this will upset her. Please help.
Posted by sammie2, 17th April 2014