What are some good ways to boost your sex life? I’m a mother of 3 children and finding the time can be hard, what are some ideas that you can give me to boost our sex life and make it more interesting and exciting?


Posted by kjgarner, 16th October 2015


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  • I dont watch it personally, but people often suggest porn….
    My husband loves it when I make the first move. We have an 8 year old and a 2 year old who loves attention, so it makes it difficult to find the time and sometimes we do get interrupted.
    However, if its late a night and everyones in bed, I just tell him to come to the bedroom.(Command – haha) Or even if we wake up before the kids.
    Or if the kids are distracted, the thrill of a ‘quickie’ can make it fun and exciting.
    Maybe buy some sexy underwear, or even sending flirtatious texts to each other. You just have to make the time.
    We both work fulltime so we are both tired – but don’t let that be your excuse all the time.
    Good luck :) Hope this helps a little.



  • yeah maybe even a short getaway will refresh you both



  • Date night here we come!



  • I find if you feel sexy and attractive, it’s easier to be that. Put some perfume on, buy some lingerie, organise a sleepover for the kids. It’s like riding a bike, you never fall off. Plus, the more you do it, the more you enjoy it



  • A date night is always a good idea and fun too.



  • Find some time for romance – plan some romantic time together.



  • I would be interested to hear the responses I am in the same boat.


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