I love lists so you get them something they want and they don’t end up with 10 kettles! Usually the list is made up of items of many prices particularly the lower end to suit eveyone’s budget. – to demand people spend a specific amount is rude. you should be grateful about anything you received no matter what price. Also wedding lists are not to buy makeup and clothes and handbags, it is normally things to start your new life together like appliances, crockery, cutlery, sheets, towels etc. If you have enough of that then say please no gifts or we have been to a wedding where they said instead of gifts (as they had everything as they were all ready living together) said please donate to a charity they chose. It would be interesting to see who backs out of going!!
Published 8th April 2020