We care for our grandkids ,12yrs now .Never thought we would end up with a drug addict daughter.First child ,girl,so cute full of life .Living in rural town first time coming from the city ,was a change,starting out again with my hubby &youngest came with us &our 16yr stayed with family.Well didn’t turn out well .Ended up living with us again ,with boyfriend in tow.Pregant..She ended up leaving without their child .They told us we be back in next bus from city .Well months later we ,took fulltime care of her ,didn’t want her in welfare .So 10yrs later same daughter returned pregant ,wanting to have her children with us ,lots of soul searching ,we said no ,ur an adult we have 1ofcur children ,this 1 raise on own .Baby boy was born ,2weeks later Family S.A came into it .7months later we brought him home .But ended up we don’t have any rights ,get told how we raise our grandson ,who had access &photos sent to biological parents whom have not even sent a card or anything.Everything we do needs to be confirmed with Family Sa ,yes protect children ,which we do .But the people who are related to our grandson can see him even though had not contact with hi. .Kindy at 3yrs old ,we had no say ,all other kids start at 3.t or 4.Strangeers tell us about our own grandson .I’ve been abused by the boys worker ,all because u spoke to his worker out of hours &at kindy ,only asked if she(worker) to ring me .So we have our grandson till 18 ,but have no say in anything even if hes our kin ,no way to be treated by government worker .P.s his biological gave my daughter drugs for sex ,that’s how our grandson came about .We luv all our girls &grandkids .If grandparents are willing to take child on all boxes are ticked we should be left alone to try & be a family .without being dictated to .
Posted by deborah_osborne, 17th July 2014
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mom113055 said
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- 17 Jul 2014
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Statho2000 said
- 17 Jul 2014
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mom56842 replied
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