nice exellent

nice to read stories on this great site

I agree with telling people you only want one.
It will help take the pressure off

Wow I think many mums go through the ‘are you having anymore?’ question plus lots of other silly and inappropriate questions. They wouldn’t say what my first was going to be until about 30 weeks because he wouldn’t stop moving for scans. People kept asking ‘do you want a boy or girl?’ Hello it is what it is so theirs no point wanting one or the other. With your fertility problem I’m sure you’ve tried lots of different ways but I would just say ‘we will when we’re ready’ and leave it that. If people keep persisting which they always do I would be a lot blunter. A lot of people just don’t think about how rude, invasive and unwanted their comments and questions are.

People just don’t think sometimes…

just let people know one is enough.

Tell people your happy with one. I hope things have changed since you posted this xx