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Our daughter is in her first year at school. I pack a fair amount of food in her lunch box – fruit for fruit time, a sandwich or similar and a bento style lunch box with various snacks that I know she’ll eat. Generally pretzels, yoghurt, cheese and jatz, sultanas, zucchini cake with cacao powder or banana pancake, small sweet treat, sometimes a few tee vee snacks, sometimes a homemade chocolate, rice bubble, peanut butter cup I make. She is coming home RAVENOUS! Like hangry to the extreme. She’s also going through a phase of what she will and won’t eat which we are being patient on because usually she used to eat a lot more variety for her main meals. I’m thinking of introducing a few more lunch options in the bento box that I think she might eventually come around to – mini quiche, spaghetti bolognaise slice. I am anticipating these to be essentially wasted but working on the theory of exposure being key and one day she might just give it a go. Anything I’m missing? Her post school snacking is ruining her dinner to the point where she’s snacked so much she doesn’t want anything else! I have tried to give her dinner early but she won’t have a bar of it. She’s not big on salad or raw veg so after school snacks are difficult. Also hates sauce, gravies and dips.

NOTE – I am completely thinking this is a phase and am really looking for suggestions of foods to try as we persist through it.


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  • I think you are doing the right thing in giving her a variety of options in her school lunch. It is important to give her foods that will fill her up earlier in the day like wholegrain options, bananas and other fibrous fruits, etc. Things like rice or corn cakes are also healthy and wholesome. Then offer something smaller for an after school snack – maybe vitabrits and some cheese, vegemite, etc?


  • My daughter of 5 years old and she only wants 2 minute noodles or party pies when she gets home from school. Not super healthy but in all honesty, she’s such a picky eater, I’m just happy for her to get something in.


  • I find my miss 4.5 will keep asking for after school snacks just because she’s bored. So she can have something but then I give her early dinner if she’s wanting more. I’ll quite often give her dinner before we eat as my husband doesn’t favour eating early.


  • I don’t know how your circumstances are but you could move dinner forward


  • healthy snacks they normally get a piece of fruit or yoghurt and a sweet or savoury snack. It’s something light as we do dinner at 5.30/6 every night.


  • We do healthy snacks they normally get a piece of fruit or yoghurt and a sweet or savoury snack. It’s something light as we do dinner at 5.30/6 every night


  • We do a box of healthy snacks that they can have any time, once the snacks are gone then they wait for dinner. Might be worth doing the same so they have a visual of what they can see they can have wether it’s fruit and yoghurt and they can portion it or eat it all at once but they get used to them having to wait until tea if they scoff it all.


  • Is she actually eating what you’re providing? She could be giving it away, throwing it away or other kids could be pinching it. Reduce the after school food if she’s unable to eat tea tho


  • I can totally relate to your situation. My oldest used to come home absolutely starving too. One thing that worked for us was offering a high-protein snack right after school, like a piece of cheese or some nuts. This seemed to keep him satisfied until dinner time. I also agree with the others about limiting snacks and trying to move dinner a bit earlier if possible.


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  • I’ve found the ravenous hunger being portrayed is actually them being bored. Offer a piece of fruit or yoghurt, that’s plenty to last til tea time. You’re giving either too much or feeding her too late (too close to tea time)


  • Personally I’d just say no to snacking after school. Sounds like you are giving her plenty for the day. She either waits until dinner or she has dinner early. We have dinner early so my kids never snack after school. It’s what you get them used to.


  • Exposure is key, however, they have to be ready for a new change. Her sensory and physical threshold is at breaking point, so it might just cause more issues and work for you right now.


  • Is she maybe sharing her food with someone else? I agree with other comments about setting a limit to the snacks after school and bringing dinner time forward.


  • My friend had a similar issue with her daughter. At this age they are not able to regulate when they are actually hungry to when they think they are hungry. Unless she is underweight, it sounds like you are giving her plenty of food. Could it be a boredom thing? I know it is hard, i watched my friend go through it with her daughter but she had to put her foot down and only allow her one snack after school. There were meltdowns and tears but after a couple of weeks this went away. Have you considered a bit of tough love and seeing if this could improve the feeling of wanting to eat?


  • Maybe increase her protein intake at school. It sounds like she’s already getting a decent amount but offering more could help. Some homemade chicken tenders, your quiche idea would be great. Or maybe a smoothie in the mornings.


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