I dont think you’ll do any serious long term damage by carrying your son, even if it is too much, he’ll eventually be too big to carry and he’ll have to walk

Don’t worry momma , some kids they walk and wanted put them down some food free to be held all time specially the first ones , take lots of love . As we a new parent, we don’t know how to manage the kids for the first time . Experience and situations teach us more .

Don’t worry momma , some kids they walk and wanted put them down some food free to be held all time specially the first ones , take lots of advantage .

I still put my twins in the pram when shopping. Otherwise they would just go wild and run around in the shop. With two I just don’t have a choice.

It’s completely normal for children to develop at different rates, and each child has their own timeline for achieving milestones like walking. At 21 months, some children are walking independently, while others may take a bit more time. It’s important to remember that there is a wide range of normal development, and comparing your child to others may not always be productive.

That being said, if you’re interested in encouraging your son’s independence and walking skills, there are several things you can try: Encourage walking at home: Create a safe and supportive environment at home where your son can practice walking. Clear the floor of any obstacles, and provide furniture or toys that he can use for support as he takes steps. Get suitable shoes: If your son is showing interest in walking, consider getting him a pair of comfortable, supportive shoes. Make sure they fit well and provide stability. However, keep in mind that going barefoot or using soft-soled shoes indoors can also be beneficial for developing balance and coordination. Hold his hand: When you’re out and about, encourage him to walk by holding his hand. This gives him support and helps build confidence in his walking abilities. Use a push toy or walker: Push toys or walkers can be useful in encouraging independent walking. Your son can hold onto the toy for support as he takes steps. Celebrate small victories: Praise and celebrate your son’s efforts, even if they are just a few steps. Positive reinforcement can motivate him to continue trying.

Remember that every child is unique, and the most important thing is to provide a supportive and encouraging environment. If you have concerns about your son’s development, it’s always a good idea to discuss them with your pediatrician. They can provide guidance based on your child’s individual needs and milestones.