It could be that you need to try some self soothing techniques if you haven’t already. Self soothing is very important for development and getting into a good sleep routine. If you are constantly responding and reacting every time she is crying, it could be that this is a learned trait. It is okay to let her cry for a bit. She needs to learn that she is not a puppeteer.

Possibly your baby is going through a phrase as they are growing up. They probably still hungry (want more formula), tired, nappy is wet(bothering them) could be a few things to look out for. Do you use a dummy at home? If it helps maybe try use to comfort baby? Hope it all works out for you.

It sounds like you’re going through a tough time, and it’s understandable to feel overwhelmed. It’s actually quite common for babies around this age to experience phases of fussiness and clinginess. At 5-6 months, babies are becoming more aware of their surroundings and may be going through a developmental leap, which can lead to more frustration and difficulty with things like tummy time or being put down. While it’s challenging, this behavior can often be a phase that passes as your baby grows and develops new skills. It might help to continue offering comfort and reassurance, but also try to introduce small changes like a new toy or a change of scenery to break the monotony. If her doctor hasn’t raised concerns, that’s a positive sign that her physical development is on track. If things continue to be difficult, though, consider talking to a pediatrician about the possibility of reflux, allergies, or even sleep training tips.

It does sound like something is really unsettling her. Have you thought about environmental factors – temperature, do you have pets, etc? Are the nappies you have her in keeping her dry?

Your baby might be teething, causing her pain and discomfort and making her fussy. It could also be due to colic as formula-fed babies tend to swallow more air causing gas and colic (although there are a lot of other factors too).

I hope this is just a phase, but for peace of mind, I suggest seeking a second opinion from another doctor.

Sounds like baby is still hungry. You didn’t mention what food baby was having to complement the formula. Mashed veggies like sweet potato and pea’s and Meat and vegetable puree’s as well as Rhubarb, apple and yoghurt puree. If a baby is fed they usually settle down to a sleep and you have a content baby. Look for lots of recipes online that are suitable or buy readymade baby food from Coles and Woolworths. These are very handy and give you an idea what baby likes for little expense. Once baby is less fussy you will have more time to make your own baby food. Ask for help from friends and family and neighbours do not be shy. We all have been through motherhood and we love helping out when we are asked. Best of luck.

I would see a paediatrician and see what their thoughts are on this

Hopefully this is just a phase, but maybe take her to another doctor just to be sure. Make sure her food isn’t upsetting her stomach. Maybe giver her a baby massage.

I’m really sorry you’re feeling this way, it sounds tough. It’s definitely possible this is a phase, especially given her age. Around 6 months, babies can go through a period of increased fussiness, which could be related to teething, a growing sense of independence, or just a stage of development where they become more sensitive to overstimulation or boredom. It’s great that you’ve had her checked out and that there are no concerns with her physical development. One thing to try is varying her activities—maybe try different textures or sounds during playtime to keep her engaged. It could also help to offer a bit more structure with short, frequent play sessions, so she doesn’t get overwhelmed. As for tummy time, even if she’s not keen on it, try incorporating it into other activities (like propping her up on your chest) to make it less stressful for her. Lastly, it’s important to take care of yourself—baby’s moods can be draining, but make sure you’re finding small moments to recharge too.

I agree with the advice already provided by other mums in the comments. I do believe it could be a phase but keep an eye on it and if it is really starting to bother you, speak to a professional and asked them to assess your child. This might give you some comfort/answers.

Some things you can try:
Change to a slower nipple.
Take short feeding breaks.
Feed the baby in a near-sitting position so they can drink at their own pace.
Find a quiet place to feed.
Ask someone else to try feeding the baby.
Gently touch and talk to the baby while feeding.
Don’t force the baby to feed.
If you have concerns about your baby’s feeding, you should have them assessed by a doctor or child and family health nurse.

A fussy 6-month-old bottle fed baby can have many causes, including:
Teething: Babies often start teething around this age, which can cause fussiness, crying, drooling, and swollen gums.
Growth spurt: Babies can be fussy during growth spurts, which are common in the first year of life.
Feeding amount: The baby might be eating too much or too little.
Bottle nipple: The nipple might be too big or the flow might be too fast or too slow.
Gastroesophageal reflux: The baby might have painful reflux.
Gas: The baby might be gassy.
Infection: The baby might have an infection, such as oral thrush or human hand, foot, and mouth disease.
Food allergy: The baby might have a food allergy.
Not ready for solid foods: The baby might not be ready for solid foods yet.
Feeling sick: The baby might be feeling sick, colicky, or otherwise unwell enough to feed.

This is most likely just a stage with a fussy, easily bored baby. Once she gets moving and can amuse herself getting into everything this may change. Even once she is sitting up she will find things more fun. Hang in there. Does a walk in the pram, looking about, help at all. It might be good for you.

You might just have a little fussy pants on your hands. I was in the same boat. I found having a variety of different toys helped. At 6 months old I purchased the VTech glow and giggle mat (cheapest at Kmart), he loved kicking the buttons and grabbing the toys on his back, then it helped encourage him to hold his head up. Also propping him up with a rolled up towel helped for tummy time, using black and white books held up high. I had to be *on* a lot to engage him. He is now getting better at independent play and allowing me to roam around and not hover over him. He’s still emotionally expressive but it’s eased up a lot.