I have an excellent relationship with my daughter in law, she’s the mother of two of my beautiful grandsons. She’s only 21 years old. Occasionally some meals are healthy but it’s mostly takeaway, junk food and bad snacks. I hated when my mother-in-law told me how to raise my kids, I don’t want to make the same insulting mistakes. Should I just keep supplying the kids healthier meals and snacks and hope it rubs off on her or does anyone have suggestions of gentle ways to tell her? My two-year-old grandson is overweight and has asthma probably because of his diet.