While regular bickering is normal, most of the communication in your relationship should not be negative. When you and your partner find yourselves consistently arguing, there is likely a bigger, underlying issue at play that cannot be effectively resolved through bickering.
If the arguments are over minor issues, you should both learn to pick your battles. Over 20 years of marriage I have learnt to just let some things go because it’s just not worth the argument and the bitter feelings afterwards.
My husband and i have been together for 8 years we married last weekend and we bicker about alot of things, sometimes we get a bit heated, but most of the time its over silly things, after 2 years of being together he had a below knee amputation due to a work accident so we lived at each others feet while he recovered, and we couldnt stand esch other, now hes back working up to 2/3 days a week we know that if he was to be out of work id have to go do something, so i agree with people saying both go out and find a hobby seperately, make plans to see friends when your doing nothing, i hope things work out for you, 50 years is a massive achievement, i hope that you both work together to make it even longer❤❤
Oh it would be awful after so many years together to separate now. Maybe try not so much time together, get out, find interests that take you away from the home
That is a long time . What do you bicker about , is it something worth arguing about and what changes can be made so you each can do things either together or separately . I would seek relationship counselling if it is constant and causing distress especially if you think communication has gone downhill .
If u can’t stop bickering ,mabe ,but do a list & see the pros & cons .Im in long term relationship ,we bicker so I send him fishing or go visit mates .
I hate to say this, but you two are the only people who can answer that question… Why not try a holiday apart, (not a separation) but a week away were you can both get some distance, you may be surprised at how much you miss each other. 50 years of your life is a lot to throw away for bickering….
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