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I’m a 30 year old FTM. I’ve only had my bub this year but I’ve noticed a lot of talk about Christmas presents for teachers. Is this a new thing? Obviously it’s been a very long time since I was in school but I only ever remember students giving a card and maybe making an ornament out of pasta or something. I can imagine how costly this must get for parents with multiple kids. A friend of mine brought all 3 of her kids teachers insulated wine glasses and a bottle of wine each. Is this the new norm? And does this also apply to childcare? Should I be buying the workers gifts too?


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  • I think it’s a personal preference thing. I certainly don’t worry too much. I’ve done it once as a teacher sent home a small gift. A cheap succulent works well if you feel obligated- Facebook marketplace is a gem!


  • I made gingerbread men with our children to give as gifts to teachers and or school friends. Home made gift with our love and thanks.


  • Like everything these days, we’ve gone mad. This was just starting to be a thing when my son was in Secondary School (with friends doing this for their primary school teachers). If a teacher is really special and does something above and beyond for your child, it’s nice to recognise that personally – not for instagram or FB, but because it’s meaningful. I feel it’s become social, a competition, who can buy the best gift and share it. Imagine being a teacher receiving 25 gifts? Or for those families that can’t afford it. I think it’s absolutely way out of control and not necessary. Do you buy your Postie a gift? Your GP?


  • Its an individual choice. After listening to my sister who is a school teacher in the country and the lovely gifts she receives, her response has always been – it makes teaching worthwhile. She loves all her gifts.


  • Some give gifts, others like myself don’t, the choice is yours who you give Christmas gifts too. My child gives everyone a card and 2 friends a present. We’ll be giving the osh team chocolates


  • My chiren aged 22 and 19 now, always gave a gift to their teachers for christmas and an Easter egg at christmas time. It.s not a new thing. We jut always did.


  • I’m an old girl and I remember giving my teachers a gift every Xmas until I reached high school and then there were too many teachers. So a small gift and a card would be nice to let them know they’re appreciated. My friend is a primary school teacher and it’s hard work that I never realised. Plus, they seem to have to deal with more these days too.


  • Yes I gave our kinder teachers gifts when my children finished kinder. And I have bought their teacher a gift every year. A special one for grade prep & grade 6. You can buy some really nice & affordable gifts on line. I like to make them personalised.


  • We can only give small gifts as our kids go to a council daycare so they’re only allowed to accept gifts less than 20 bucks or so!


  • I like to buy a gift to say how greatful I am for the work they have done over the year. I feel educators (childcare or school) are so severely underpaid that my little token at least shows that someone appreciates them. Doesn’t need to cost a bomb, just a small token, but definitely not something you have to do.


  • I agree with Mum-Em’s comment below. A personalised card with meaningful words of thanks is perfect for a thank you for a year of teaching and learning at school.


  • I don’t remember ever really giving my teachers gifts. Maybe a Christmas card. That would be 25 years ago. I don’t want to give out gifts that people don’t use or really appreciate so I’ll get my son to make some cards. Something creative that shows our appreciation.


  • I can remember giving teachers end of year gifts when I was in school, and that’s over 40 years ago. It’s not new. It is not that hard to find something small and personal (I usually look at about $20) and it’s a nice gesture.


  • Maybe it has become an expectancy because a lot of people do it and therefor feel the pressure to do it too. It’s not a must but a nice gesture to express our gratitude. Personally I’ve had years we just did a handmade card with something our kids made themselves or we made together. When I do buy a gift I try to keep it below $10. I would most certainly not give a gift to all the staff members of the childcare centre


  • It has been a ‘thing’ for a long time and it is ok to opt out of gift giving. I know plenty of teachers and they do get overloaded with gifts at certain times of the year. We give a heartfelt and personalised card and avoid over consumerism.


  • It’s been a thing for quite some time. At least 10 years from what I recall. It’s not expected but it is a nice gesture. I am keeping it really cheap and simple and getting a jar with some smarties in it with a card that says thanks for making me a smartie this year. Lots of cheap creative ideas out there. You don’t need to spend much.


  • I gifted and created lost of Christmas ornaments last year as a gifts. My angels and ballerinas were very popular as a gifts for educators and teachers – especially that the price ranges from $8-$15 so it’s affordable and unique. If you would like to see some of it please visit my Facebook page Under Her Wings macrame by Justyna


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