I understand why they would do this at daycare, they use their sleeping items for other children, so they need to avoid unecessary messes. I would say she’s still learning. She’ll get there, patience and time is needed

Developmentally she might not be ready. She’s only two and a half. Takes time. A toilet time before day nap is encouraged.

there are some good comments here

How are you going with the training?

It will come with time

I think have a talk to the daycare staff about not putting the nappy on

Good advice below. How is she going now?

i hope it worked out

Daycare needs to listen to you about the no nappies for starters. Hope you are getting it sorted out

I hope that it pans out for you

Say to the day care no more nappies please

It takes time, she will get there eventually, you are doing all the right things. Tell day care no more nappies.

I am getting to that stage too… anxious!

My daughter is at the same stage and I have been trying not to worry about it too much. These answers are very reassuring that she just needs more time. In regards to child care, my daughter seems to get quite upset by her accidents as she gets older, therefore i let the childcare to use sleep nappies so she doesnt get disheartened.

Lordy, all this fuss about toilet training when it’s a known fact that many children’s systems don’t mature until well past three. It was a competition when I had my babies as to whose babe was toilet trained first, seems nothing changes. If rushed into being trained there could be all sorts of consequences when a child gets older….let nature take its course and use nappies.

Give her the time she needs as she is still young

She may just no be able to physically be able to have dry sleeps yet. I don’t think it is a step backwards to have her is a nappy for sleeps but I would leave her undies on under her nappy as she will get that wet feeling and this may help without the changing of the sheets. It is important not to but too much stress on her or yourself as it will sort itself out with a little more time I think.

She will get there. Just give her time. My two took until 4 years to go through a night with out wetting the bed.

Personally I think you should follow what the daycare are doing and take the pressure off her.
She will not be doing this when shes 13 so just let her get there under her own steam. She is only 2.5yrs old. Dont pressure her to grow up. It takes very little effort to put a nappy on her for sleep time.
She will get there in her own good time.

Wetting whilst asleep is actually controlled by hormones that are released by the pituitary gland in the brain… This hormone is released with maturity… So just wait they become dry in their own time.