I see this is an old question. I honestly hope your daughter developed into a beautiful happy and balanced woman with the ability to make right choices

Seek family counciling perhaps? Sometimes a strangers view helps.

I went through a rebellious stage but I was much older than your daughter is. One day she’ll look back and realise everything she’s put you through, probably when she has kids of her own. Maybe take a step back and let her make her own mistakes. Good luck.

I hope things are going good

send her to someone to talk too! I was the same that that age but if she is going to rebel she will find a way to do it

I am dreading when my daughter turns that age! Sounds like u r doing all the right things!

Gee your daughter sounds just like my 8 year old who has ADHD, one of the symptoms of ADHD is no impulse control i think you should have her assessed by a doctor for ADHD

It is a difficult phase in her life Hope things go well

its a testing age isn’t it? hope its going well for you

I hope things have improved for you.

it is a difficult age.

I agree with what others have said, find an interest that will occupy most of her time and give her an outlet and you might be able to shift the focus from inappropriate behaviour to acceptable ones

my little sister just went through this stage of being a rebellious teenager and what kids are like these days its hard to get one to behave when everyone else isn’t although with my sister she plays a sports now that uses 90% of her spare time and she has had a major attitude change mabie find something good she enjoys and gives her a chance to excert negative behaviour

I think one of the worst things you can do is give her more rules. She sounds like shes going through her rebellious phase a little, give her some space to make her own mistakes and she’ll stop making them perhaps!

Unfortunately I think this is just a part of being 13. I don’t have any advice other than to keep the lines of communication open. I was awful at that age then suddenly snapped out of it and felt pretty guilty for what I put my parents through.

Teenages push boundaries, she is 13 and her peers are doing the same as what she is. If you continue to say no to everything she is just going to keep rebelling against your rules. Try writing up a behaviour contract with her. That may help. Reward her when she does follow your rules otherwise she isn’t going to see the point in why she needs to follow your rules when other parents are more lenient with their kids

I hope things get easier for you. Have you considered taking her to a psychologist, they might be able to help her deal with her emotions and give you strategies to deal with whats been happening.

Try to be friends with her rather than being a mum and things might change.Let her trust you first and share things with you.

maybe there is an activity you can all do as a family and she will realise one day if she pushes you away what she has missed out on. its a tough one, i think they need freedom but also strict boundaries too..its good to be a mother but also a friend and be there for her.

I was similar at that age I hope she learns like I Did too . I turned out good now I think and regret being such a Devil. My mum sent me to a Counsellor that may help her.