so, for Xmas, iv told my daughter who is horse mad, that im buying 3 tickets for a trail ride. One for me, her and a friend of her choice. Shes picked her cousin who is her favourite person . I told my Brother in law last night that I dont want th other kids thinking they are being left out, that my neice coming is a part of my daughter gift and not a gift for her. None of our other kids are going. My sister inlaw is not really ok with this, as her youngest well be jealous. This isnt a gift for my neice but my daughtera who has had a very ruff 12 months. My kids know this is a gift and understand why they are not going. Im going to be really frustrated if she isn’t allowed to come because an 9yo will be jealous. Im a firm believer that kids need to learn early on that we dont all get invited.