What a wonderful story. I hope that your decision works out well for you both. More time with and around your children is hard work so please remember to look after yourself as you do everything you can for him!

A lot of children with ADHD, have behavioural issues and learning problems.
If the truth be known your son is probably clever at doing things with his hands rather than doing subjects which involve exams etc. Does he communicate with other other adults and children? His symptoms are the same as a form of Autism. In USA they are assessed and start therapy by the age of 2 y.o., especially speech therapy. In the beginning it is only an hour or so twice a week. As the child gets a little older the types of therapy and the sessions are increased as is the number of days. If they are tired by lunch time they let them have a short sleep. A friend of mine is a nanny to one over there. Is your son going to a Special School? Does he talk in full sentences or say a few words and you decipher what the full sentence is?

There is a lot of help available nowadays. Lots of different learning and coping mechanisms. I wish you all the best on your journey

My eldest son has same problems and it’s hard but I learnt routines and hands on activities help and having things for him to do such as research on things he likes and him do a picture or story or building it stuff like that helps. I wish you your son and your family all the best and much love xx