Its more rude for her to bring a kid with CP than for you to ask her not to come.

Your kids come first i’d be straight up about it

Don’t beat around the bush come straight out with it, you would hope she would be practical and say sorry we can’t come..

Just tell them, honey. Kids health is THE priority here, not a mum getting snitty over being asked not to come. In saying that, I had CP as a kid, as did my brother….we’re both alive n kicking

I would never take my children out when they have chickenpox :/

Wow, if one of my children had chicken pox I wouldn’t dream of taking her to a birthday party. Perhaps you can suggest dropping in a piece of birthday cake to her and ignore the fact that she’s planning to still attend, she might get the hint.

I thought she’d be keeping her away anyway without you asking!

I hope all worked out well for you

It is an awkward position but I think it’s best to be honest and say exactly how you feel.

stay away poor grabn you dont want that to spread

Hope it all went well

A very serious issue. I hope you have found some helpful suggestions here.

Hope it all worked out for you.

I hope you told her and she understood the situation

I would suggest something to them

I hope you managed to tell her and it worked out well and she understood 🙂

I would not have a problem being asked not to attend if there was the slightest chance I or my child would be passing germs on!

if she has broken out in the spots im pretty sure she isn’t contagious any more its th 3 weeks prior that there contagious well that’s what the drs told me when I thought my daughter had chicken pox

Ask if she is still contagious. That should give a bit of a hint I would imagine. Most kids hv imunisation against it

I would let her come. Its not nice but if she gives it to someone else it could be serious.