Every parent is different and every baby is different. I wouldn’t ever tell another mum how they should be doing things. A close friend of mine just became a new mum and her baby doesn’t have a sleep schedule. She reached out to me to ask what I did for my baby at the same age and I made sure to remind her that our babies will be different so that she may need to just follow her babies cues and work from there.

Gently. See if you can help out. Have a coffee and gently bring it up. New mums are sometimes too timid to ask. See how you go over a cuppa and a chat.

It’s probably best to just ask if they need help with anything.