hopefully a short phase for you. you have a few bad nights…

Rocking with soft music helps!

Patience and soft music always is of benefit!

I wouldn’t tuck her up if she wants to move let her and she will go to sleep soon enough. Then you can check on her later and just cover her with blankets.

I hope you found a solution!

i hope its gotten better

I just love hearing of routine because it never worked in our house. And just as you thought you had one something else happened to change it. Wake for food, sort that out and then teething started

Hope you found a way to get her to sleep for you.

The routine is important and should stay the same, I hope you have found something that works for you.

I hope you have found a tip that works well for you

Establish a strict bedtime routine, dim the lights and create a peaceful sleepy atmosphere about an hour before its time for bed. When you put her in bed, leave the room. If she’s unsettled go back in, reassure her its ok, then leave again. It doesn’t really matter if she crawls around her cot then falls asleep somewhere not where you like her to be, just go in and move her after shes fallen asleep.

Maybe play relaxing music. That relaxes then n they nod off

Put Your Sleepy Baby to Bed

Starting when your baby is 6 to 12 weeks old, soothe her until she is drowsy. When she’s on the verge of sleep, put her down and let her drift off on her own. Don’t wait until she’s fully asleep.

This routine will teach your baby to soothe herself to sleep, and you won’t need to rock or cuddle her to sleep every time she wakes up during the night.

Let Your Baby Cry it Out — Should You or Shouldn’t You?

The decision is yours, of course. But if it’s hard for you stay away from your baby when she cries, going with this method may not be the best choice. Studies show that, even if parents make it through the first night or two, they usually find that enforcing sleep this way is too stressful. Many parents were not able to ignore their babies long enough or consistently enough for them to stop crying and eventually fall asleep on their own.

Check In, Then Leave

One crying-it-out type of sleep training is the well-known, yet controversial, Ferber Method, also known as “Progressive Watching” or “Graduated Extinction”. The goal is to teach your baby how to sleep on her own and put herself back to sleep if she wakes up during the night. Richard Ferber, MD, director of the Center for Pediatric Sleep Disorders at Children’s Hospital Boston, developed this method. He advises parents not to start this training until baby is at least 5 or 6 months old. Here’s an overview of how it’s done:
•Put your baby in her crib — drowsy, but awake. Once you’ve finished her bedtime routine, leave the room.
•If your baby cries, wait a few minutes before you check on her. The amount of time you wait depends on you and your baby. You might start waiting somewhere between 1 and 5 minutes.
•When you re-enter your baby’s room, try to console her. But do not pick her up and do not stay for more than 2 or 3 minutes, even if she’s still crying when you leave. Seeing your face will be enough to assure your baby that you are close by so she can eventually fall asleep on her own.
•If she continues crying, gradually increase the amount of time you wait before going in to check on her again. For instance, if you wait 3 minutes the first time, wait 5 minutes the second time, and 10 minutes each time after that.
•The next night, wait 5 minutes the first time, 10 minutes the second time, and 12 minutes each time after that.

Check In, Then Leave continued…

Adopting this method might be difficult during the first few nights. But you’ll likely see improvement in your baby’s sleep pattern by day 3 or 4. Most parents see an improvement within a week.

Tip: If you want to try the Ferber Method, make sure you’re well rested before the first night of sleep training. For the first nights especially, you’ll spend a lot of time listening for your baby’s cries, checking your watch, and entering and exiting her room.

Establish a Bedtime Routine

A study of 405 mothers — with infants between 7 months and 36 months old — showed that babies who followed a nightly bedtime routine went to sleep easier, slept better, and cried out in the middle of the night less often.

Some parents start their baby’s bedtime routine as early as 6 to 8 weeks old. Your baby’s routine can be any combination of regular bedtime activities. The keys to success:
•Play active games during the day and quiet games in the evening. This keeps your baby from getting too excited right before bedtime.
•Keep activities the same and in the same order, night after night.
•Make every activity calm and peaceful, especially toward the end of the routine.
•Save your baby’s favorite activity for last, and do it in her bedroom. This will help her look forward to bedtime and associate her sleep space with things she likes to do.
•Make nighttime conditions in your baby’s bedroom consistent. If she wakes up in the middle of the night, the sounds and lights in the room should be the same as when she fell asleep.

I put my 1 yr old to sleep in my arms and then transfer him. It works well for me

I tried the lay down method and it drove me insane – I finally laid her down and let hetr cry herself to sleep after a week of that she would self settle

There’s something called the lay-down method but it can be very tedious! Bsically it says you pick them up and put them on their backs over and over and over until they stay there….Can sometimes take 50 times a night for a week! But if it works may be worth a try….

it could be a lot of things why she stop self settling, she could be teething, hungry, too hot or cold, growth spurt, thirsty, dirty nappy or overtired. you said she used to self settle, I don’t know what method u used but maybe try it again. if you don’t want to pat her again, you can just stay in her room so she can see that you’re just there beside her. it’ll take a lot of time and patience though. good luck.