I don’t think there is an age when people stop. People may desire it less, but many will continue til their last days.

I wasn’t aware stopping sex was something that couples end up doing. I know of people in their 90s still partaking. Have a chat with your partner and try find a happy medium

I too am going through menopause but my sex drive hasn’t waned. My parents stopped when dads emphysema prevented him. I don’t think there’s a set age for stopping. It could just be a passing phase and your drive could return. Who knows

Not sure, but I do hope you find your answer, I am in my 30’s so not there yet

it has been so long for me I cannot remember LOL

All I can suggest is that you find a compromise that you are both happy with.

I am 29 so can’t relate to menopause but i am heavily pregnant. And we have an active toddler who loves sleeping in our bed so our sex life is close to non existant
We have bought sex toys to masturbate when we can’t manage to have sex. Best decision ever. We always try to be intimate when we can but don’t begrudge each other if we end up having to use the toys. It’s not as satisfying but it’ll do the job

We find to keep the fires alight . Keep doing the thing you were doing whilst you were younger keep the fire alight romance is the key to a never ending love. If that goes then you fall apart help each other by touch you never grow old if the love is still there.

WOW I just the 80 year old post … I hope I am that energetic!

Cheers for all reply ,great to hear others ideas ,but at 80 don’t think I’d have any energy for sex !

Up until last year my grandparents still had a healtgy sez life and my grandmother is 80.
She would even have lingerie nighties. Lol.
Not sure about now since they have been having serious health issues.

But i will leave you with a quote from my 80 yr old grandma “we are older my dear, we are not dead!”

Go see a doctor but refuse the mirena IUS it is evil. i have cysts in the breasts as well a ovaries because of the evil thing do not get it. go to a doctor or a naturopath

Go see your doctor with help for your libido but whatever you do refuse the mirena IUS. I had one of them and now have hormonal positive cysts in the breasts I have to get scans on every 6 months to make sure they don’t get bigger. I got it moved 2 months after diagnosis and I have also had cysts grow and burst on my ovaries since removal. Yes my periods did stop but everytime my period was due i had extremely sore breasts and mood swings. I was also almost put on anti-depressants because of being depressed all the time because of that evil thing. You are better getting help frm the doctor or a naturopath.

Im nearing menopause also but it hasnt affected my sex drive.
I think everyone is different but this is something that you should discuss with your Doctor as there might be things that can help you.

I don’t know if you are Peri-menopausal. But if you are you can ask your Doctor to see if you can have a Merina fitted … this acts as a birth control but also balances out your hormones and lasts for 5 years. You monthly period will also stop. In my opinion your partner is asking for sex too often and I think you are sick of having sex all the time. my ex husband was the same and it really did put me off. You have to find a way to enjoy it again. Maybe he isn’t doing enough foreplay?? Also seek out some counselling

There is no set time. A lot of women lose interest when they are going through menopause due to hormone loss and a lot of women become more sexually active. Each person is different. As a counsellor, I have had women lose their “sex drive ” in their 40’s and another couple that were in their 90’s with a very active sex life.

We are in our early 50’s and haven’t had sex for over 3 years but that is mainly due to his medication causing lack of sex drive.
Truth be told I was happy.
I haven’t had menopause yet so don’t know about that.

not sure, ive never been a fan. we are down to once a week now thank god! don’t think there is an age

Thanks for replays ,thinking I will try some herbal treatments .Just feel for my hubby ,been together 32 yrs & had healthy selfie ,just body changes are awful .

It is a shame you do not feel like sex anymore. Perhaps when the main menopause symptoms are over or minimal you might feel like sex once more. I don’t think there is any set age couples stop having sex. It is an individual thing between couples and all couples are different. If you would like some more personal advice or ideas I would be happy to try and help if you pm me as they say.