Hello!

I had a family staffy for 14 years, my parents originally bought her but she bonded with me. When I moved out of my parents home with my partner 6 years after having her I didnt bring her with me.however not even a year later she moved in with us, where she lived 8 more precious years before having her pts due to serious illness at 14 years old. She was there through some tough times, deaths and hardships. She was also there for my 2 pregnancies and births. She adored our children as staffies do.
She passed away june 2025 and I miss her awfully. She was the best. However I miss having a dog for me and also my children. I want another. But is it too soon?


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  • Oh she sounds like she was such a sweetheart. And growing up with your dog and having had her there through big milestones would definitely be beautiful memories, but also makes it difficult to think that you could replace her. But love can always be expanded and have room for more, if you think you are ready, go for it!


  • I commented below about getting new pets and dogs and an additional thought is; for people that love dogs and enjoy taking care of them and walking them and playing with them it is good for health and wellbeing. Our home is never complete without much loved dogs that bring such joy.


  • We are a household that loves dogs and in particular rescue dogs. We have been lucky enough to have several dogs over the years. The right time for a new dog has always occurred when it did. There was no right or wrong time and we have always welcomed our new dogs.


  • I’m at so incredibly sorry! There are no words for losing our beloved cuddly companions!
    There is definitely no right or wrong time! Don’t let anyone make you feel otherwise! If a new pup can help keep you company during this tough time then there is most definitely nothing wrong with that! If you feel ready then I’m positive there’s a pup waiting for you!


  • Hi there and sorry you’re going through this. I lost my little girl at 17yrs. She was attached at my hip. lol. When she passed I didn’t think I wanted another dog but realised a couple of months later that I desperately needed another dog and I was lucky enough to get a rescue. There’s no hard and fast rules about bringing in another dog but I’d be careful if your children are really young as they do pull their tails and ears etc. But if you’re going to get a dog please consider a rescue. You’re not only saving a life but your money goes to help others as well. You’ll know in yourself when the time is right.


  • I’m so sorry for the loss of your Staffy. Losing a beloved companion is incredibly hard. If you feel ready for another dog, then trust your heart — only you can know when the time is right.
    My daughter is going through something similar. She would love to bring another dog into her home, as she’s grown up with dogs all her life, but she’s choosing to wait until her little boys start asking for one. Everyone heals in their own time, and there’s no right or wrong moment to welcome a new furry friend.


  • Aw Hun I’m so sorry. Its so hard having that absence. I would first consider the age of your kids, if you think they are at an age where they could be gentle and responsible. If so, then you’ll know in your heart if you and your family are ready to love another pup.


  • Sorry to hear about the passing of your dog who was so dear to you. Personally I don’t think there is no right or wrong time to get a new dog. It really depends on if you’re emotionally ready for it and your own and your family or your children’s needs. Some people only wait for a couple of days or weeks, whilst other wait for months or even years. As long as you know that you can’t replace your previous dog it’s all good


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