My partner is out of work again and driving me nuts he’s been drinking and when he drinks he starts to yell. No one else but himself is right. He grew up in a broken family and lost a brother when he was little. He talks about the past when he drinks and will not go and see a counsellor he reckons no one can help him. Because he is out of work he is driving me nuts, we have been arguing a lot what on earth do I do! I have kids and I try to look after them the best I can and have tried to make sure there are no bad influences around them. But then sometimes I get told that I am the worst mother. When my partner and I argue it is away from the kids late at night. Does anyone here have common problems in their relationship? I would like to hear from you and maybe possibly grab some advice? Thanks.
Posted anonymously, 21st October 2014