How can I visit my children? – What should I do. I have 2 children who live interstate and just got told by father he won’t pay half of airfares (on holidays the only time I get the children now) because he pays for everything. I help when I can and if I know about it. I can’t help if he doesn’t tell me. He told me he saw a solicitor and that I have to pay full cost but cannot afford it at all, all my spare money goes to the airfares coming to visit. I’m not sure what I should do please any advice will help and I cannot afford to see a solicitor of my own but am trying to.