Hi there. I have 3 kids; Mr 7, Miss 6 and Mr 4. Miss 6 is giving me a hard time with my new boyfriend. They’ve known him for around 2 months as my friend, and have over the last few weeks have I mentioned that I really like him.
As I was beginning to let them know that, she says to me “We already know he’s your boyfriend! ”
Apparently their father and grandmother searched me on fb and asked the kids who was in my photos. When told he was my friend, they informed them that he must be my boyfriend.
She gets stroppy with him, mad at her brothers for embracing him, and worse started screaming in the car yesterday, I asked him to pull over so we could get out of the car (they just came back from their fathers).
My bf wants to be a part of the family, the boys and I want him to be a part of the family, but my Miss keeps making us all feel uncomfortable. I have tried all the PPP and PME tactics I’ve learned, but nothing works.
I can’t let her run my life, I can’t stand her acting/feeling like this, and I can’t stand the thought of this loving, considerate, giving man being treated like crap for no reason. I just feel so drained.
He hasn’t stayed over while the kids have been home, and we haven’t even kissed infront of them, so it’s not like I’m in her face.