Sister in-law has affair husband asked her to move out she has gone to live with new guy but not sure what she is doing she is not speaking to anyone she has a son she hasn’t seen seen prior to Xmas day 3 weekes saw him Christmas Day lunch he is 14 he has 2 step sisters one over seas the other one 21 who has no idea she is in her own little word and just says her mum is going through a lot and needs her own time. I really feel her son is effected by this I tried taking to him but he won’t talk to anyone at he did mention to his cousin why can’t his parents just live together and get along it suxs he also want to open his presents with mum but she wasn’t there for him
We drove down 2 hours to see all the my in-laws as they don’t drive up see us and we stay down at my parent in-laws place while they go camping 45 min away and we just drive out there where they are every second day so we have my nephew with us as his dad is working and night shift so my partner and I have taken him I have gotten his hair cut and done things with him I tried talking to him but he said it doesn’t matter he is ok I feel he isn’t as he has issues already with his weight and not very social his nan has never really liked him and hasn’t said anything to him neither has his pop his other Aunties have t really had the chance to say anything to him as they have been working and never had anything to do with him it’s only been is every year doing things with him. What can I do or say to him to get him to talk
I sent his mum a message as she didn’t hang around to see us saying thanks for my 2 daughters presents but it would of been nice if you actually gave it to them one being 4 months old and 8 who really adores her aunty
But it would of been nice for you to give to them as we drove to 2 hours to see everyone and spend quality time with family
She replied she is going through a lot and she is lucky she came to Christmas at all and she will catch up with us we still haven’t heard anything from her and we still down at the in-laws also her daughter is living at her nan while in between house but she hasn’t spoken to her brother about the situation and apparently said to him to come and stay with her over Christmas and hang with my partner and myself and the girls that
Was her way of doing something
Should I message is Mum again saying when we are going back
And I also feel like messaging her to call her son and spend some time with him and stop playing the victim
I really annoyed at her for her doing this to her son fair enough she said she fell out of love with the husband and wants to see the guy but he is like 10 years younger and they work together
Suggestions please

Posted anonymously, 1st January 2019

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