How to handle relatives who don’t respect your wishes whilst caring for your child? – I’d love some feedback please. I called my mother this morning to see if she wouldn’t mind looking after my 11 month old son as I had a migraine, of course she said yes so my husband drove him over to her house on his way to work. And I said that I would pick him up later. I messaged her around midday to see how he was, she said he was fine he had a sleep and now was having lunch. I felt better so I drove over to pick him up at 2. When i got there the first thing she said was ‘tell mummy what nanna did today’ she then told me that she took my son to visit her parents which is a 25-30 min drive away. No one apart from my husband and i have driven him any where. I have told her many times that i don’t like the car seat she has in her car as it is front facing and we use a rear facing car seat as he is quite small for his age and i personally feel that it is safer at his age and weight. I didn’t really say much as i was upset that she taken him out with out my knowledge and that she had not respected my wishes about the car seat. I just cant stop thinking about it and I am getting more and more upset. Am I being over sensitive about this? What should I say to her? I don’t know if I should tell my husband, but I know if his parents had done that I would be furious. Any advise would be greatly appreciated.