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Want to be happier? Don’t we all? It’s great when the answer to being happy is doing less.

Here are 8 things that the happiest people in the world just flat out don’t do:

1. They don’t criticise.

Happy people don’t criticise others for their actions, unless that criticism is imperative to the person’s well-being, and then they do it lovingly and thoughtfully. Criticising others in an attempt to tear them down is usually a sign of your own insecurities. Happy people care for others, and have no interest in hurting them.

2. They don’t compare.

Happy people are satisfied with their own life choices. They are thankful for what they have, and don’t compare their lifestyle with others.

3. They don’t complain.

Complaining is a symptom of focusing on what you don’t have, rather than what you do. You can never get everything you wish for. Happy people know complaining is never a solution.

4. They don’t live in the past.

Living in the past usually means dwelling on past regrets. Unless it’s informing future choices, it’s a waste of time. Be positive and work hard to create a better future now. Let go of what has already happened. It doesn’t serve you.

5. They don’t try to change others.

Happy people accept their friends and acquaintances for who they are and where they are, without dissatisfaction or frustration. They appreciate the positive. 

6. They don’t forget to prioritise personal growth.

They focus on their purpose, their dreams, their daily habits, and their health. By remaining focused, they are able to achieve their goals in life. 

7. They don’t worry about people’s judgment.

Happy people really don’t care much what other people think of them. They do what they want and need to do for their own, well-considered reasons, and the approval or disapproval of others doesn’t sway them at all. 

8. They don’t overthink.

Happy people recognise that thought spirals are often the root cause of depression, anxiety and stress, and nip them in the bud.

Can you think of anything else that ‘happy people’ don’t do? Please share in the comments below.

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  • Unfortunately I’m guilty of doing of few of these things but I’m still happy.

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  • So very true. Happy people love to see other people happy

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  • I AM happy, but I will complain if I am overcharged for anything – nearly $5.00 on one item. It was approx 30% of the price of the item. That’s 3 or 4 weeks worth of UHT milk as I don’t use much unless I have visitors staying.

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  • I agree with everything apart form number 4! I love reminiscing about the past. I have such happy memories I believe it is not a “waste of time” it is what has shaped you to be who you are today.


    • Remembering happy times is great for the soul, it’s the rehashing of past regrets that is not great. Definitely keep telling those happy stories, especially the ones that make you laugh.

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  • Great article and yes l am a happy person so are the people in my life!

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  • Sooo true! Thanks for making things clearer!!!

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  • Happy people also focus on themselves and strive to be the best they can be and end up being happy. It also flows onto family and friends.

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  • The overthinking one would be very hard not to do

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  • Oh my goodness, I have some work to do! Great advice, plenty of things to be mindful of, thank you!

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  • Such great reminders of ways to enjoy life

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  • That’s so true. I relate with a lot of what you write. I would add that happy people accept things as they come. If something goes wrong, they don’t nag about it. They accept it, and try to see what they can do to make it work next time. They can be upset, but they don’t show it. Rather they try to learn from the mistakes.

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