This so relates. My husband puts things down and leaves them there. Then complains when the puppy (when she was little) takes them for a walk. Seriously. They are blind – like walking in when you are flustered trying to make dinner, lunches and get ready and ask Can I help??? Really – even if you say yes they just sit there. Mine has a new habit of scrolling through Facebook at top volume. He has no idea how annoying it is. Men just leave clothes on the floor and then wonder why they are dirty. I know they cant be changed but how do we cope ????

Men are a bit lazy and can’t help that they’re wired to not see details. There’s literally very little going on in their mind and they just don’t think to think about things but they can’t help it!

I think they get a little lazy when we do things for them just like kids so stop doing so much for them all the time

Oh my goodness this is my husband to the tee – I constantly say to him that if he had put his tool or whatever it was in its rightful place, we wouldn’t be wasting our time looking for things. I also now tell him that we have wasted weeks over the years looking for his keys, wallet, tools etc…Ah!! Constant!

Yes some times.Deafness is more than that.

My late husband was a lot like this too, unless it was his fishing gear. That he always knew where his favourite lure was or that lucky hook. He had his priorities right for sure.

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  haha, lol !

Ha. Ha. Yes, it happens regularly with my husband too! 🙂

This is my husband, especially with the laundry hamper. Although, I’m not 100% sure if he’s ‘blind’ or just lazy!

Yep, I get asked where this are all the time. My reply is “where it’s been for the last several years”

I have noticed this also!

Thats funny???? I have the same issue but its not with tools but rather finding things in the fridge or pantry. I always hear “wheres the butter?” Or “where’s the cheese” and it is pretty much staring them in the face!!!

Hilarious! My hubby is just like the article and he goes off at me for putting his tools away in so called ‘random’ locations

I honestly don’t understand it!! I’m trying to teach my son while he is young to change this

So true ! My husband knows where to find the plates bowls and glasses in the cupboard, but doesn’t know where to tidy them up in the cupboard. And on many occasions he’s suddenly helpless because he can’t find things… I often have a big laugh, it’s just too funny 😉

Mine is blind ???????????? how many time i will find things exactly when i told him it will be ( and he was looking there)

It must be neurological – men seem wired differently. Domestic Blindness is very common.

Hahaha I love every word posted because it seems like my life at times. I sometimes feel my organization of my partners belongings causes it to become his disorganization in my eyes. If I leave things as they are he has no problem finding things, the moment I tidy up it becomes chaos and nothing but frustration for him. Ahh I don’t know whether to laugh or cry sometimes.

Oh god every single time. Lol. They are all the same!

My hubby is always useless at finding stuff right in front of him haha

My husband is pretty good at knowing where most things are! The tools are mine and I’m never happy when someone else touches them… tho I’m usually responsible for putting them down and losing them when I blink, which amuses my husband to no end!