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My husband laughed as he described his mother in hysterics about toilet paper during a phone call he had received at work from her.

Although she was overseas enjoying her holiday, she was deeply concerned about the toilet paper shortage in Australia.

In fact, she was panic-stricken even though she would be on holidays for a further three weeks and the country she is in wasn’t experiencing any shortages!

Her greatest fear was that my family, having nine members, would be running low on toilet paper.

…and that my husband would go to her house and STEAL SOME OF HER SUPPLIES!

No Stealing!

She made it very clear to him that under NO circumstances was he to do such a thing- no matter how desperate we became!

Her worry over something as trivial as toilet paper during a time when she should have been focusing on enjoying herself was absolutely hilarious to my husband and admittedly I could see the funny side too… but the underlying message was still undeniably hurtful.

I Buy In Bulk BUT I Do Not Panic Buy!

As a mother of seven, I do buy in bulk. I have done so for years- it’s not “panic buying”, it sure as heck looks like it, however it’s just a basic big family shop.

Most people who know me know I do this. And over the years my in-laws have benefited from my bulk buying by being able to rely on me if ever they run out of toilet paper!

Forgotten?

Had my mother-in-law magically forgotten all of those times?

Or was she just genuinely stressed that in three weeks time when she returned home, Australia would have completely sold out of toilet paper…

Either way it didn’t really sit well with me that she assumed we would even consider stooping so low as to steal toilet paper from her home!

Who does that?

Besides, at the time of her hysterical phone call, I was in denial that there was even a toilet paper crisis happening around me.

I thought it was a marketing ploy to get shoppers to spend more money on silly things.

Then I blamed the media saying that they were just creating hype and a reason for shoppers to panic.

…then I tried to buy toilet paper… for a week… and there was NONE available ANYWHERE…

But I remained positive and eventually, we were able to buy some!

Two weeks after my mother-in-law’s firm warning to stay clear of her toilet paper, my husband received another phone call from his mother in hysterics.

It was close to midnight…

She Wanted To Come Home!

And she wanted to come home, a week early and needed his help to get her back to Australia!

The situation got me thinking about the horrible experiences so many people have had over something as simple as toilet paper!

And it made me wonder- would people still hurt someone over something so basic, if they knew that one day they would need that very person’s help?

Would they still display a lack of compassion if that human being they were just so incredibly unkind to was their ticket home?

The toilet paper shortage is only temporary, but the memory of how you treat someone can be long-lasting!

Be Kind!

Nothing lasts forever, so please, be kind with your words and your actions as you never know when the tables could turn…

It seems incredibly ironic that once my mother and father in-law arrive back in Australia, it will be my family that has to do their grocery shopping during their mandatory two week self isolation period… I wonder if she will reflect on the fact that during those two weeks we most certainly will be sent on a wild goose chase so that she doesn’t end up running out of the very item that she didn’t want to share with us!

… and wouldn’t it be crazy if we couldn’t source any for her!

Would She Expect Me To Share?

If that were the case I’m curious if it would mean that she would expect me to share my supply with her as I have been over the years?

I guess only time will tell… but I know that one thing is certain, I wouldn’t want her to experience the selfishness that we have been shown…

Are you fed about the lack of humanity during this toilet paper crisis? Tell us in the comments below.

  • I think that if everyone thought about the greater community a bit it would help us all

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  • And here I am sacrificing my chance of toilet paper for some oldies who can’t walk fast to the paper isle. Compassion is free and even if I and my family of 6 had to just use cut up cloths or shower then so be it.

    I’d find it so difficult to shop for her too….

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  • I was happy I was able to buy 1pack of 1 roll of toilet paper, those thin ones where your fingers pierce through 😉 We’re with the 6 of us but it’s better then nothing

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  • I cant believe she was worried that you or your husband will take some tp from her house….

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  • It’s sad, I would be the bigger person and let her have some toilet paper, but only after I let her sweat it out a little…
    I’d probably tell her no, and remind her if what she had to said while away, then take the TP to her while she had a little tanty over me being so mean, only to show her I was just trying to teach her a lesson.


    • Sounds like a very selfish women and I am sorry but if she asks I would tell her how hurtful that was to say and that you have a big family of 6 so you can’t really give her any as you need it yourself and struggled to get just the one packet. I lent a friend a roll of paper when she was out and had visitors and I had one in my car I gave her and have never seen it return to me being 4 months ago she’s conveniently forgotten about it I always have one in my car living in the country as sometimes you don’t have a toilet along the road, so must remember to put another in my car.

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  • I know exactly what she means and she sounds like she’s being the bigger person here. Kindness goes a long way but it should be both ways

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  • I’m over the hoarders it’s bull that they are getting away with it we should be supporting our family’s and community in these hard times not being horrible and selfish

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  • What I have an issue with are the shoppers who strip the shelves to resell at a ridiculous price. Price gouging is disgusting at the best of times but in a pandemic it’s reprehensible. As for toilet paper, it can be sourced online and sold by the box at a very reasonable price, some companies offer free delivery. After this pandemic is over I’m going to continue to buy it online.

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  • I think all this panic is expected. We haven’t seen something like this before and people react by stock piling and trying to protect their own.

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  • Thought parents are supposed to care for their children and help them out when needed? And children return the favour when they are old enough and able! It seems very one sided in this family dynamic! The parents not willing to share whilst being dependent on the children to take care of their needs. It sounds to me like they didn’t trust their son to not steal their toilet paper and decided to come back a week early to protect what they have!

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  • Wow, how ridiculous. I’d tell her to mind her own business.

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  • so much is going on in this australia so tired of it not very australia all this supermarket wars and rubbish i am tired of no toilet paper tissues no food delivery from supermarket sick sick of it

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  • Yes there has been some disgusting behaviour. It’s disappointing to see and shows a lack of empathy and care for others

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  • i am fed up to whats with this hoarding and more and more toilet paper stop stop buying more and more, so much is happening i wish to die so sick of the way people are acting in australia no longer are we a country helping out all its everyone for themselves not very australian

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  • I’m very fed up. People are pulling every trick to try and get more.
    I had minimal nappies and no Panadol. No meat and not milk for my babies bottle.
    I really feel like the shops are never going to catch up on products.
    I feel for the elderly too. It actually makes me very cranky that there is no humanity for our elderly in times like this

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  • I bulk buy usually this has done my head in not being able to grab my fortnightly shopping because of the panic buying!

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  • It’s really absurd, and at the same tragic, what’s happening. I don’t order on line but I know that a lot of families use it every month. Such a big change for them. Even worse if you live far away. You go to buy your usual shopping and there are limit restrictions. It’s sad but I hope that now that people realize we will be in this for at least six months, they will start to be more rational.
    This morning I was so relieved to see shelves full of meat and other stuff again!

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  • I usually click and collect, I live 2hrs away from woolies! But now I can’t do that, so I had to take my kids with me in this absolute chaos panic buying at the super market. It’s soul destroying watching people fight over things, push past people trying to get the things on their list, as if the apocalypse is coming and they’re never making bread, milk or bog roll again!! One man was standing next to another bloke there were 6 loaves of bread left and the first bloke grabbed all six and put them in his trolley. The older man says mate can I have just 1? I ran out of bread this morning. Thankfully the fella gave him 1, but it’s just a joke. What is he going to do with 6 loaves? Freeze them just in case??

    I had my 3 kids with me today there was no chicken, no pasta, no 2 min noodles, barely any up n go’s,.no hand wipes or sanitizer…and signs every where saying limit of 2 or 1 per customer…I grabbed 2 x3 litre milks and laughed because they will be empty by the weekend and I will have to battle the shops again, because there is no way I’m social distancing without milk for my coffee,.and 6 litres of milk won’t last my family more than 2 days.

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