So I have made the decision to focus on my 5 children and fiance. My mother is toxic, my brother is a very bad person. My mum enables his behaviour which always puts him in jail. I habe cut all contact after so many years of being hurt emotionally and abused by them. They were never a constant in my life or my children. My eldest son is scared of his uncle. Does this make me the bad person that they insist I am.