I wanted to ask everyone your opinion and what it’s like in your families.
I have more children than my sibling does which means they have more kids to buy presents for
I have always felt a little bit uncomfortable about this and so have often tried to spend a little extra to make it a bit more even between us. I’ve noticed that my sibling has made little comments here and there that shows to me they are aware of it and want me to be. This actually upset me a little because of the effort I’ve always made to spend extra (although I don’t point it out) and because I would never point it out if the situation was reverse. In one way I understand having to spend on more kids might feel unfair but you also get to love and enjoy more right? It’s a hard one and I was curious if anyone else has ever had these issues?
Forum Family fairness
Posted anonymously, 6th November 2026



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