This screams jealousy. She’s not happy he’s moved on and is looking to start fights. It makes me so upset when women do this to each other. If my ex wanted anything to do with his kid, I’d welcome his new partner if they were nice to my kids. I don’t understand the petty jealousy and starting drama for no reason.

Really?? I dont see the connection between that emoji (which I use all the time) and being a pedophile. I feel like people nowadays get hurt or affected by very little… very sad because this is clearly over reaction due to some past wounds and have not being properly closed

I’m honestly absolutely disgusted and just confused. I can’t understand how on earth anyone can relate an emjoi to being a paedophile. Please don’t allow her delusion to upset you. I think the person that called you that needs some serious help either that or a bloody hobby of some sort

Wow! What an overreaction that comes from a place of jealousy and resentment I think personally. I would ignore her and I actually think that if she is starting so much trouble that your partner needs to block her so that she can’t see anything and you should block her too. You don’t need that drama in your life.

Personally I feel this is a jealousy thing on her behalf. Thinking she does not like to see her ex happy? Could you maybe try blocking her or have your partner speak with her regarding her comments towards you. I see nothing wrong with your comment at all and certainly don’t see any trace of paedophile tendencies in what you have written.

I have found the best way to manage people that like to cause enormous amounts of drama is to not give their acts an audience or any oxygen. Drama filled acts are best ignored and given no room to further grow and take up valuable positive space in a life.

I agree that it does seem like her way to try to manage her control over her ex partner and kids (are this her & ex partners kids?). Personally I would try not to let this get to you. It would be best if you and your partner can ignore it

I have to agree with a lot of the comments below, I think the ex is over reacting and trying to stir the pot for sure. It doesn’t sound like you have done anything wrong or harmful. There are far more important things to worry about. Take a snapshot of the ex’s message and just try and ignore it. Your partner needs to stand up to her and at if she doesn’t like it then remove yourself as a friend. They aren’t together anymore, she can’t dictate like this.

Sounds like she’s the one with the sick mind! I’d personally I would be wanting her removed from seeing my family’s post.s she doesn’t need to be seeing them and none of her business they’ve broken up

I don’t want to be paranoid Pete, but if the message is still there I would take a screenshot and save it away just in case this escalates and you need documentation of her unreasonable comments. This comment is far beyond what I would consider a normal reaction to a harmless comment.

Unpleasant and unsolicited comments are often best ignored and not given any fuel to keep going. The only opinion that actually matters is your opinion and that of your partner. If you think it is fine then go with your intuition and if your partner thinks it is fine then other comments do not matter.

It certainly doesn’t sound wrong to me. I’d wonder what was going on in her head, to be honest.

The message from your partners ex wife is not really warranted. To her maybe, but it really isn’t worth your time and stress. Your emoji comment is how you feel, and there is nothing wrong with that. I feel like it’s maybe a way the ex wife can see if she still has power over your partner to do what she wants him to.

So your partners ex wife messaged him and asked him to ask you to remove your comment and emoji because it’s f#%king creepy and pedophile sh*t. I assume your partner shared her message with you. What your partners thoughts are on her message is more important what her thoughts are. What are his thoughts on this ?

I think just ignore her whatever she says or does, maybe she is jealous of you or something as they are not together anymore . Just be yourself, that’s the most important thing now. Also stay positive and everything should work itself out in time hopefully . Goodluck with everything.

Just ignore her and do what you do. She can’t rule his account.

Eww she’s looking for drama and being extreme. Why do they have each other on socials if this is how innocent interactions go down?

Perhaps your partner needs to tell her that he is not interested in her immature comments and that he will not be asking you to remove your comment. Its time for him to back you and let her know that he will not tolerate her being petty so it best stop now.