My eldest has just turned 13, and I’m organising his birthday party. His friends feel a bit too old for the sort of small novelties I used to put in party bags. Of course, I don’t want to spend a fortune on the bags either. What do other people do? Do you just give them a small bag of food treats, or do you include some small item – and if you include a non-food item, what? The party is a pool party at home. Thanks!